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1. Compare dating to interviewing, your applying for a job if you want to believe it or not.

2. If you go into every date "expecting" something, you'll never get anything.

3. Roughneck or a desk bunny, all women want to be treated like a lady at least once or twice on a date.

4. Never meet someone without at least 3 pictures.

5. Never do a no call no show on a first date, karma has its way of biting you in hind end.

6. Always leave a handsome tip on a first date, and place it on your side the table, but close enough your date can see.

7. Confidence is key, arrogance is a sure fire way to blow it.

8. If your going into a "relationship" where both parties expect only one thing, always wrap up.

9. There are women players just like men, dont let them fool ya.

10. If you kiss on the first date, dont go all out down her throat, women love foreplay, even if it is just a kiss.

11. Always rush to open doors for women, at least going into a restaurant, you'll remind her of chivalry, and that's a good thing, unless shes a feminist, then she'll think your chauvinist.

12. Never meet or introduce the kids unless your completely sure.

13. If you go for the gusto in your first email, you'll be deleted with the rest.

14. Never meet for the first time at a noisy and rowdy bar, and let them know you want some quiet so you can hear what they have to say, women love to know you respect their thoughts.

15. Flowers before date 3 is dangerous, and if you must, a single something other than a red rose.

16. Men, learn what the rose colors mean.

17. Always ask at least once about std history.

18. A web cam is the best way to find out if you'll be attracted to someone before date 1.

19. Women love a charmer.

20. Curtail sarcasm online or texting, hoping for a simple laugh can really screw things up fast.

21. If a woman has a full time job, and doesn't offer to pay for anything by date 3, run.

22. Most women love communication, a simple text of "good morning, have a nice day" will work wonders.

23. On the first several dates, try not to talk about ex's.

24. Never tell a woman shes gorgeous or beautiful, till you meet her in person, ever hear of Photoshop?

25. Avoid bringing up how someone looks in a first email, go with something in their profile that makes them feel special.

26. However fun it is to get to know someone the first few days, never go overboard on being to available.

27. Never cancel a second date, to go on a promising first date.

28. Go easy on the eyes, to much eye contact screams desperate.

29. Always make eye contact during conversations, above the chin. (men have a wider peripheral vision, use it)

30. Never get a good buzz going on on a first date, she'll probably say things to you she wont remember tomorrow.